Do What You Love?

People always say, "Do what you love." I'm trying to figure out if you can actually live off it.

Friday, July 16, 2010

"What Do You Want to Be When You Grow Up?"

After burning out from a 10-year stint as an elementary teacher, I was confronted with the very same question I had been asking my students for the last decade. The sad truth was that at 32 years old, I had not a clue. All I knew was that I didn't want to teach anymore.

Three years later, I had a vague idea-- I wanted to write. Write what, though, was the big question. I love to do it, it's what I'm best at, but I just didn't see how I could make money. So instead I languished in the accounting job I'd taken for "job security."

While I'm grateful to be employed in today's market, accounting is not really something that blows my hair back.  I love all the people I work with, I respect and admire my boss-- but still... There had to be something else out there career-wise. Accounting is a great fit for lots of people, just not for me.  Wanting out of my entry level accounting job and in hopes of getting a better paying position, I turned to the company's corporate recruiter to help "focus my career goals."

So we discussed all the jobs within the company that I thought I could do adequately. Each job position I brought up was met by the same sort of question:
"But do you think you could be passionate about doing ______________?"
"Do you have a passion for ______________?"
"Could you be passionate being ______________ for the long term?"

The questions dumbfounded me, frankly, and I wondered how anyone could honestly say they have a passion for any of these positions. I left my meeting with the corporate recruiter, feeling discouraged and irritated. Passion? I just need to not hate my job. I don't need to love it so much I'd want to marry it. First of all, you're lucky if you even have a job right now. If you have an actual "career", and not just a job, you are doubly blessed. Now, if you actually have a PASSION-- one off of which you can make a decent living... Well, that seems damn near impossible.

But then I really got to thinking about it. What really was my passion?

Easy: Writing.

Okay, well, why couldn't I make my passion my career? Is a career as a writer really that elusive? If other people can make a career out of their passion, why couldn't I?

The very least anyone can do is try. Even those who wait to win the Lottery have to get up and buy a ticket.

So as I actively and finally pursue my dream to become a professional writer, I want to talk to others who have succeeded or are trying to succeed in doing what they actually love to do.

The premise is this: Your Name, ____________________ (what you love to do)

How would you fill in your blank?

2 comments:

  1. I never thought you would burn on teaching, its too bad because you really had a good mannerism for handling it. At least that was when I knew you when you worked for that frog school, but hey! time does make fools of us all.

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  2. Mort, I did love teaching when I was at that "frog" school... And because I loved it, I did it well. I stopped loving it, so I stopped doing it. And you're right about time...time has made a fool of me many times over. But the Department of Labor says the average person can expect to change careers 3-5 times in his/her life! So, if I'm going for number 3 at 35 years old, I'm probably right on track. Haha. That's one way to look at it...

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